Hello Beautiful boys & girls!
So todays blog posts theme is.... Loving the Unloved! I know, it sounds like some terrible 80s movie soundtrack, but none the less its a pretty awesome motto! Every single person has had a moment in there life where they have felt totally alone and that no one loves them. It could be twenty seconds or twenty years it doesn't matter. I don't completely mean feeling abandoned or hated. For example, getting a good grade on a test and having it brushed off by everyone around you. What no one realizes is that you never study but you studied for hours to get that grade. Or hearing your family compliment your sibling about how great they look when you tried just as hard to look decent. What about trying to tell a story or a joke and having everyone speak over you? These may not seem like moments that would alter your life entirely, but those small moments of feeling totally insignificant can have lasting affects on you as a person. Then there's the big moments of feeling unloved. People have to deal with the pain of being completely abandoned by the people they thought they could trust. Some people even have to deal with constant humiliation by people who are supposed to love them calling them names and saying terrible things. This is where you come in! All the things I mentioned above are your perfect opportunity to love the unloved. The way to do this is so simple its stupid. 1. Listen! if you see someone being completely ignored listen to there story, even if you could care less a quick head nod and a smile isn't going to hurt anyone. 2. Compliment, Compliment, Compliment. Its really not difficult to give someone a compliment here's a list
- I love your hair!
- literally you always look so put together
- I wish I had your eyes
- you look nice today
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