Sex is one of those things everyone's afraid to talk about because of all the negative connotations linked to it. In actuality sex is a beautiful thing.
I'm nineteen years old and just a few months ago I lost my virginity.
I am very fortunate to have been with someone special to me and I definitely think waiting was a good idea regarding my maturity level.
Any way I was so afraid to have sex. Not because I was afraid that it would hurt or that I didn't want to lose my virginity but because I was too afraid to let anyone see my body.
I considered my options of course
1. Turn off all the lights.
2. Keep my shirt on the whole time
3.Tell him I didn't like to be touched on my stomach or legs
4.Stay a virgin
Now all of these things are 100% fine and if you are more comfortable with these things take control and make them happen butttt...
None of your faults and fears matter. You're insecurities have absolutely no impact on the way sex goes down.
Your partner does not care about the fact that you have love handles or that your thighs jiggle. He's not thinking about your muffin top.
They chose to have sex with you. They like the way you look or they wouldn't be sleeping with you at all!
Boys can be turned on no matter what you look like!
Being nervous is only going to make it more uncomfortable and painful for you, so relax and let yourself enjoy the feeling don't think about all your insecurities. If you show whoever you're sleeping with that youre confident I guarantee you they will be more turned on than they would be if you had a smaller waist or less junk in your trunk.
FYI: boys actually like a little more lovin. It makes them feel more comfortable and secure. So love your body and let others love it too! Okay that's it for this post! Have an amazing day and don't forget to smile!
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