Perfect Summer Makeup!

Hello beautiful boys and girls! So today I thought I would do a blog post on what type of makeup is best suited for the summer time! 

Ok so first things first! 

Ditch the foundation! Foundation in the summertime is a definitive no. Foundation melts off your face so easily and in the summer the sun can be killer. Also foundation provides little to no protection against the harsh rays of the sun. (You also can't tan under pounds of face makeup either) 

Go for a BB cream I use maybellines BB cream in my shade. This helps your face look dewey and less cakey but also has built in sun block! 

here's one thing I can't skip no matter what the season is. 

Liquid Eyeliner! I know this awful because this melts off as well but I still love it, to prevent some of that runny black makeup face use an eyelid primer. I get mine from elf for three dollars$$$

Eyelid primer also keeps your eyeshadow on!

In the summer I prefer to go for a lighter look such as soft pinks and shimmery golds when it comes to eyeshadow shimmery colors look especially good because of the way that sun will hit your eyeshadow and make it look like your eyes are sparkling! 

Blush is a must in the summer it adds depth to your face without looking sunburnt like a tomato!!

A simple lip gloss will make you look effortlessly gorgeous I prefer a clear one just so my lips have that shine. 

If your going out at night summertime is the time to wear bright red lipstick.

Overall summer is a time to experiment with fun colors and soft features when it comes to makeup. So have fun and be simple! Have an awesome day and don't forget to smile. 

#effyourbeautystandards

Today a little girl in fourth grade cried to me telling me the boys in her school made fun of her and told her she couldn't get a boyfriend because she isn't "sexy" fourth grade. Sexy should not be in any fourth graders vocabulary. She asked me what she had to do to become more sexy. I didn't even know how to answer that question. But I explained to her that you're only sexy when you feel most comfortable in being yourself. I feel ten times sexier when I take a silly selfie rather than a pouty or flirty selfie. So to keep the chain of helping little girls and boys accept themselves and feel comfortable in there bodies post a picture of yourself doing whatever makes you feel sexy. Be that smiling, pouting or completely cheesing out like me and hashtag the photo #effyourbeautystandards thank you all so much😍😍👍🏼😘

How to pick the perfect lipstick shade!

 Hello beautiful boys and girls! 

So today we're talking about lipstick! Okay so maybe boys aren't really interested in this blog post. Unless you are which is awesome! And ladies lets face it boys do have pretty beautiful lips ;)

Anyway back to the post! 

Picking a shade of lipstick that works really well for you is actually really hard! Although some people ( yes I'm talking to you) can just pick any shade and they look like a Mary Kay model.

Here are a few tips! 

Girl with darker hair should go for a darker lip such as a maroon or a deep red. The darker colors make you look more sophisticated and classy. 

A dark red lip is always a good thing for any hair color. 

A bright pink should only be worn in the summer or spring and usually looks better on girls with lighter hair because the light soft color of the hair allows for a brighter color! 

Black lipstick isn't really my thing but if you're going to wear it you've gotta go all out and wear all black! 

Pastel colored lips always remind me of Barbie dolls and they can be super fun in the summer, but I don't know if there the most serious looking lip shades. 

Nude lipstick is a new trend now. I have no clue why. It just looks like you accidentally put foundation all over your lips. 

Super super light lipstick makes you look like you just ate a powdered donut. (Yum!)

Be careful with your top lip when applying lipstick never go over the dent in the middle! 

After you apply lipstick stick your thumb in your mouth and blow out like you're blowing up a balloon, this will prevent lipstick from going on your teeth and get any excess off! 

If you're going to take lipstick off use a wet napkin or paper towel without water the lipstick will go all over you're face and you'll find it in new places in the morning. 

Never wear lipstick if you plan on kissing anyone that night! No matter what the label says it will get on your partner and it may be cute at the moment but not so much when he spends 20 minutes scrubbing it off his face! 

Okay that's it for today! Have an awesome night and don't forget to smile! 

Being insecure during Sex!

Hi beautiful boys and girls! So today's blog post is something that's super important to me! I, like many other young adults always dreaded taking about the S word. And no I'm not talking about salad, even though that is also something I always steered clear from talking about  :p any way I'm talking about sex. 

Sex is one of those things everyone's afraid to talk about because of all the negative connotations linked to it. In actuality sex is a beautiful thing.

I'm nineteen years old and just a few months ago I lost my virginity.

I am very fortunate to have been with someone special to me and I definitely think waiting was a good idea regarding my maturity level. 

Any way I was so afraid to have sex. Not because I was afraid that it would hurt or that I didn't want to lose my virginity but because I was too afraid to let anyone see my body.

I considered my options of course 

1. Turn off all the lights.

2. Keep my shirt on the whole time

3.Tell him I didn't like to be touched on my stomach or legs

4.Stay a virgin

Now all of these things are 100% fine and if you are more comfortable with these things take control and make them happen butttt...

None of your faults and fears matter. You're insecurities have absolutely no impact on the way sex goes down. 

Your partner does not care about the fact that you have love handles or that your thighs jiggle. He's not thinking about your muffin top. 

They chose to have sex with you. They like the way you look or they wouldn't be sleeping with you at all! 

Boys can be turned on no matter what you look like! 

Being nervous is only going to make it more uncomfortable and painful for you, so relax and let yourself enjoy the feeling don't think about all your insecurities. If you show whoever you're sleeping with that youre confident I guarantee you they will be more turned on than they would be if you had a smaller waist or less junk in your trunk. 

FYI: boys actually like a little more lovin. It makes them feel more comfortable and secure. So love your body and let others love it too! Okay that's it for this post! Have an amazing day and don't forget to smile!